WILD & GATHERED

Deciding to homeschool your children is an exciting and rewarding journey, but it can also feel overwhelming at first. Where do you start? What do you need to know? The good news is that with the right resources and a little preparation, you can create a successful homeschool experience that fits your family’s needs.

Here’s a basis step-by-step guide to help you get started:

1. Research Your State’s Homeschool Laws

Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but each state has its own regulations. Some states require minimal oversight, while others mandate standardized testing, curriculum approval, or regular reporting.

To find out what’s required in your state, visit:

• HSLDA (Home School Legal Defense Association – This organization provides a breakdown of homeschooling laws by state, legal support, and advocacy for homeschooling families.
• Your state’s Department of Education website – Most states provide official homeschooling guidelines online.

2. Choose a Homeschool Method & Teaching Style

Homeschooling is flexible, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Some common methods include:

• Traditional – Resembles public school with textbooks, lesson plans, and structured schedules.
• Classical – Focuses on critical thinking, language arts, and historical literature.
• Charlotte Mason – Incorporates short lessons, nature study, and “living books” rather than textbooks.
• Unit Studies – Integrates multiple subjects around a central theme (e.g., studying the Civil War through history, reading, science, and art).
• Unschooling – A child-led learning approach with real-world experiences.
• Online/Hybrid – Uses online programs, co-ops, or virtual teachers for some or all subjects.

Experimenting with different methods will help you discover what works best for your child’s learning style and your teaching style. I have tried A LOT of curriculum but decided BJU Homeschool was the best for our longer term goals and aligned with out Christian Faith.

3. Select a Curriculum (or Create Your Own!)

Once you’ve identified your homeschooling approach, it’s time to choose a curriculum. Some families prefer all-in-one boxed curriculums, while others mix and match resources. Popular options include:

• BJU Press- Traditional, structured with Online or Teach it yourself options
• Sonlight – Literature-based and Christian-focused.
• The Good and the Beautiful – Affordable and faith-based.
• Abeka – Traditional and structured.
• Time4Learning – Online, interactive lessons.
• Outschool & Khan Academy – Free and affordable online courses for all subjects.

You can also design your own curriculum using library books, educational websites, and hands-on projects.

4. Create a Homeschool Schedule & Learning Space

Homeschooling allows for flexibility, but having a daily or weekly schedule can help maintain consistency. Guess what!? The schedule will change! You will find what works for you and what doesn’t. Don’t feel like a failure if your calendar change and your school year needs adjusted. Consider:

• A structured schedule – School in the morning, activities in the afternoon.
• Loop scheduling – Rotating subjects throughout the week.
• Year-round schooling – Taking shorter, more frequent breaks instead of a long summer vacation.

Designate a space for learning that’s free from distractions, whether it’s a dedicated homeschool room, a corner of the living room, or even the kitchen table.

5. Connect with the Homeschool Community

You don’t have to do this alone! One thing I have learned about the homeschool community is we love to share experiences and encourage. Joining a homeschool group or co-op can provide social opportunities, support, and resources. Find local groups through:

• Facebook homeschool groups
• HSLDA state group listings
• Churches and community centers

Homeschool conventions, online forums, and mentorship from experienced homeschoolers can also be invaluable.

6. Plan for Socialization & Extracurricular Activities

One of the biggest myths about homeschooling is that kids lack social interaction. In reality, homeschoolers often have more opportunities to engage with different age groups through:

• Sports leagues (YMCA, Rec leagues, private clubs, or community teams)
• Co-op classes & field trips
• Music, art, or dance lessons
• Volunteer work
• Church Groups
• Scouting programs, 4-H, or outdoor groups

7. Stay Flexible & Adjust as Needed

The beauty of homeschooling is that you can tailor it to fit your child’s needs. If something isn’t working, change it! Be patient with yourself and your child as you find your rhythm.

Homeschooling is a deeply personal and rewarding experience that allows you to create an education tailored to your child’s needs. By understanding your state’s laws, choosing a method that works for your family, and connecting with a supportive community, you’ll be well on your way to a successful homeschool journey.

Are you considering homeschooling? Have questions or need curriculum suggestions? Drop them in the comments—I’d love to help!